Change by choice…before you've no other choice.



Many a times when we sit just like that, some part of ours gets on thinking the way things used to be… changes that occur make the whole scenario changed. Then we start analyzing how everything has changed!

Well, it’s not just mine story, it’s everyone’s story. Sometimes tears start flowing from my eyes thinking of the golden past moments… but, all that I do is sigh… take a deep breath, look high & say- “hmm… that’s life…”

Changes change you & your life quite too much.  Some say life is good… some say its bad… while others don’t know what to say.
I read somewhere life is a party- Right, perhaps. It is a party in a way.

"People are invited…
Some come... Others don’t …
Some show up earlier… some enter late…
The best ones always make their entry at the appropriate time…
Some come to enjoy… some to entertain…
Some stay for short… some a bit longer...
Some laugh with you… some laugh at you...
But in the end, only a few stay to help you to clean all the mess."

“People in the end, show what they really are…”

The game of people’s entry & exit goes on… in the end, your life will end up, but not this game! They’ll just keep coming & leaving. You might get irritated & frustrated by this at times. But, slowly, you’ll get habitual of all this stuff & moreover, you’ll learn how to deal with it! You’ll learn how to let it go.

Letting go is an art & not everybody is an artist. “Let go”- too easy to say & exactly opposite when it comes to execution.
To live your life happily… you’ll have to change your way of living a bit sometimes- that’s the way life goes!

They say life is the best school. It teaches you each & every single thing that you’ll need to know for the accomplishment of your life’s ultimate goal. Hard kicks are also a part of our syllabus in this class of life. Sometimes, it even makes us cry but instead of crying… we try hiding our tears & smile.

“Smiles are always good. But the thing about faking a smile is it doesn’t make you feel good”

Life is not about pretending… it’s about being you. Smile at every possible situation- but make sure that the smile is genuine one. Cry whenever you feel like... cry till all your tears dry up. But make sure, once you are done crying… you never cry for the same reason again. Crying again & again for the same reason will not only ruin your present but your future too.
“If you cry because you missed the sun… you’ll miss the stars too.
You need to change your perspectives… not only once or twice… but whenever the life asks. Letting go is one of the most important lessons one need to learn & understand.
Strangers become best friends… best friends become strangers- that’s the way life goes.
Change is the only permanent thing in this temporary world. Remember, even the devil was once an angel.
Life do teaches some bitter lessons but they’ll be worth it!

                                    “Some lessons are painful… some are painless…
                                                   but all of them are priceless…”


Change is the essence of nature. Nothing else is persistent in this world except CHANGE.

“Neither the strongest of all survives… neither the fastest one… one that survives is the one who is most adaptable to change…”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  -SHUBHAM

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