That was a choice...

                                               

We always keep thinking about one problem or the other most of the time, but do we ever think about how to get out of it rather than focusing on why the hell it started? Had we paid enough attention to ourselves, the things would have been surly different.

            Take a minute out of your busy schedule & think- “is it someone else responsible for my situation or is it me, myself who created the whole scenario?” you might feel someone else too is responsible for the situation but in the end it was you who actually created it.

Moreover, we just keep wishing to reach at some position better than ever. Making castles in the air has never worked for anyone & can’t ever for anyone. To be at the place you wish to be, start working for it. You get what you work for, not what you wish for.

“Wishing makes dreams come true only in Disney movies; in life, only working can get the job done.”

You want to wish or you want to work- the choice is always yours. Your choices will make your destiny. Working will take you to a better place… wishing will take you to a bitter place.

Stop excusing of your past to miss out on the future. Everyone has problems; you are not the only one. Feel good you don’t own all the problems in the world. The problems were a by-product of your choices only. So, stop crying & start trying.

Some great person said:

            “If a group of people are ever made to sit around a table… Put all their problems on it & are given a chance to exchange their problems with some other problems; everyone will end up picking their own problems only.” Very true!!

The above case will surely happen because some part of us knows that the problems were our choices only & we know how to deal with them & fix them up!

Many a times, we get a feel that others life is much better than ours… but we forget that we are also “other” for some. It’s our choice whether we make our life better or make it bitter.

“Remember, choices & destiny goes hand in hand.”

Wherever you are today is just because of the choices you made earlier. No one knows the answers to your problems better than you. Take time to talk to yourself. And if you want to be in better circumstances, start making better choices.

Life is not about finding yourself… it’s about creating yourself. The best elements of life don’t enter just like that… they have to be created.

You were born to succeed but perhaps, you chose mediocrity. It was a choice. To be the best... choose the best. Never satisfy for anything but the best.

One more thing, don’t waste your time in thinking what to choose & what not to. Just chose the one you feel like. There is nothing like completely wrong.

“Even a stopped clock shows the right time twice a day.”

As Ratan Tata said in a speech:
“I don’t believe in making right choices… I just make my choice & then make it right”

Good luck.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    -Shubham